Moderation rules
Submission Guidelines
The Blessing Wall should feel funny, healing, honest, and safe. Submissions are reviewed before publication. Nothing should publish automatically.
Good submissions
- Focus on your own release, realization, fresh start, humor, or tiny victory.
- Use first names only if they are your own display name, not another person’s identity.
- Keep it brief enough to work as a public card.
- Choose a tone that matches the submission: peaceful, funny, grateful, spicy, rebuilding, or other.
Do not submit
- Full names of ex-partners, children, lawyers, judges, employers, schools, or other private people.
- Addresses, phone numbers, emails, workplaces, schools, court details, or identifying locations.
- Threats, revenge plans, harassment, doxxing, stalking, or instructions to harm anyone.
- Custody allegations, legal accusations, defamatory claims, or detailed allegations about another person.
- Graphic abuse details, hate speech, explicit sexual content, spam, or promotional links.
Moderation choices
Admins may approve, reject, move back to pending, soft-delete, feature, unfeature, or lightly edit a blessing for typos, formatting, privacy, or safety. We may choose not to publish a submission even if it is heartfelt.
Public display
Approved blessings may display the blessing text, tone, and display name. Use “Anonymous” or leave the display name blank if you do not want a name shown.
Simple rule
Bless your divorce. Do not expose, threaten, or try to punish another person through this site.